In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we don’t have one person who gives talks or sermons each week during our sacrament meeting. Instead, speakers are selected from the members of the congregation and are asked to prepare a talk. I was recently asked to speak, and the subject of the talk was to be based on a recent speech given at General Conference. The talk was Spiritually Defining Memories by Elder Neil L. Anderson. I thought I would also share it here.
My Talk on Spiritually Defining Moments
During General Conference this year we celebrated the 200 year anniversary of Joseph Smith’s First Vision. The experience was so powerful that, despite facing opposition, this 14-year-old boy testified of the experience again and again throughout his life stating,
“I had actually seen a light, and in the midst of that light I saw two Personages, and they did, in reality, speak to me; and though I was hated and persecuted for saying that I had seen a vision, yet it was true. … I knew it, and I knew that God knew it, and I could not deny it.”
Joseph Smith continued to testify of Jesus Christ and God the Father until his untimely death. As he turned himself over to his captors at Carthage Jail, knowing that he would not return, he wrote, “I am going like a lamb to the slaughter, but I am calm as a summer’s morning; I have a conscience void of offense towards God, and towards all men.”
Elder Neil L. Anderson referred to experiences like these as our “spiritually defining experiences.” He said:
“There is a lesson for us in the Prophet Joseph’s example. Along with the peaceful direction we receive from the Holy Ghost, from time to time, God powerfully and very personally assures each of us that He knows us and loves us and that He is blessing us specifically and openly. Then, in our moments of difficulty, the Savior brings these experiences back into our mind.”
My Experience with Spiritually Defining Memories
One experience stands above the rest– something I return to when times are tough and I find myself doubting.
Several years, I was in my room reading when I suddenly felt the desire to pray. I knelt down and began to pray. I don’t remember getting much further than addressing Heavenly Father when I was overcome with the most overwhelming sense of love from my Heavenly Father. As I basked in that heavenly feeling, there was little more I needed to say. I simply said, “Thank you” and closed my prayer.

With this experience I can completely relate with Elder Anderson when he said:
“When personal difficulty, doubt, or discouragement darken our path, or when world conditions beyond our control lead us to wonder about the future, the spiritually defining memories from our book of life are like luminous stones that help brighten the road ahead, assuring us that God knows us, loves us, and has sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to help us return home. And when someone sets their defining memories aside and is lost or confused, we turn them toward the Savior as we share our faith and memories with them, helping them rediscover those precious spiritual moments they once treasured.”
Though my experience was a spiritually defining moment, it is still several years old. We are entitled to personal revelation and the companionship of the Holy Ghost on a daily basis. We just need to ensure we are positioning ourselves to be receptive when the Lord sees fit to bless us.
Elder Anderson reminds us:
“We hear Him in our prayers, in our homes, in the scriptures, in our hymns, as we worthily partake of the sacrament, as we declare our faith, as we serve others, and as we attend the temple with fellow believers. Spiritually defining moments come as we prayerfully listen to general conference and as we better keep the commandments.”
An Invitation
We have recently heard President Russell M. Nelson say:
“I invite you to think deeply and often about this key question: How do you hear Him? I also invite you to take steps to hear Him better and more often.”
Embrace your sacred spiritually defining memories. Believe them. Write them down. Share them with your family. Trust that they come to you from your Heavenly Father and His Beloved Son. Let those memories bring patience to your doubts and understanding to your difficulties.
I promise you that as you willingly acknowledge and carefully treasure the spiritually defining memories in your life, more and more will come to you. Heavenly Father knows you and loves you. And He is actively involved in your life.
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